Fellow Jerseyblogger Ian Argent asks just one question of gay marriage opponents:
Why do we allow sterile, divorced, atheistic serial adulterers who happen to be of opposite sex to enter into legally recognized marriage; but prevent people who truly love one another to do the same, if they happen to be of the same sex?
...and points out that in a nation with a robust establishment prohibition, the answer can't have anything to do with any religion.
Unlike its prototype, though, this One Question has a very simple answer:
Because laws against gay marriage accomplish their unstated goal of reaffirming whose subculture is in charge, and who gets to tell whom how to live.
See how easy these questions are to answer when you're honest?